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要明白，人不能迫使别人爱自己，只能让自己变得更可爱。
要明白，获得别人的信任需要几年的时间，而失去别人的信任只需要几秒钟。
要明白，最有价值的东西并不是生活中拥有的物质，而是生命中你拥有的人。
要明白，不要总拿自己和别人比，周围的人不是比你强就是不如你。
要明白，富人未必是什么都有的人，但却是需求最少的人。
要明白，人要左右自己的态度，否则就会被自己的态度左右。
要明白，给自己所爱的人留下深深的伤口只需几秒钟，而伤口的愈合却要花上好几年。
要试着用实际行动去谅解别人。
要明白，总有人深爱着你们，却不善言表。
要明白，金钱买不来幸福。
要明白，有时就算你心情很差，但你也无权搞得周围每个人都不开心。
要明白，伟大的梦想未必要有巨大的翅膀，但却需要一个可靠的着陆工具。
要明白，挚友难求，一旦拥有，便拥有了真正的财富。
要明白，话没说出口之前你是主人，一旦说出，你就要为之负责。
要明白，种瓜得瓜，种豆得豆。如果你播种的是闲言碎语，收获的必然是别人的恶语中伤；如果你播种的是爱，收获的必然是幸福。
要明白，真正的幸福并不是要达到目的，而是要学会知足于已经拥有的。
要明白，幸福只是个决定。要么就对自己和自己拥有的感到满足，要么就嫉妒眼红别人而亡。
要明白，同样的事，在不同的人看来，就会是不同的样子。
要明白，敢于忠于自己的人是走的最远的人。
要明白，即使自己无能为力，当朋友向你哭诉时，也要竭尽全力抚平他/她的创伤。
要明白，竭力控制所爱的人，只能促使他她/更快离去，给所爱的人足够的自由，才能肩并肩一直走下去

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To learn that they cannot make anyone love them. What they can do is to let themselves be loved.
To learn that it takes years to build trust, and a few seconds to destroy it.
To learn that what is most valuable is not what they have in their lives, but who they have in their lives.
To learn that it is not good to compare themselves to others. There will be others better or worse than they are.
To learn that a rich person is not one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.
To learn that they should control their attitudes, otherwise their attitudes will control them.
To learn that it only takes a few seconds to open profound wounds in persons we love, and that it takes many years to heal them.
To learn to forgive by practicing forgiveness.
To learn that there are persons that love them dearly, but simply do not know how to show their feelings.
To learn that money can buy everything but happiness.
To learn that while at times they may be entitled to be upset, that does not give them the right to upset those around them.
To learn that great dreams do not require great wings, but a landing gear to achieve.
To learn that true friends are scarce, he/she who has found one has found a true treasure.
To learn that they are masters of what they keep to themselves and slaves of what they say.
To learn that they shall reap what they plant; if they plant gossip they will harvest intrigues, if they plant love they will harvest happiness.
To learn that true happiness is not to achieve their goals but to learn to be satisfied with what they already achieved.
To learn that happiness is a decision. They decide to be happy with what they are and have, or die from envy and jealousy of what they lack.
To learn that two people can look at the same thing and see something totally different.
To learn that those who are honest with themselves without considering the consequences go far in life.
To learn that even though they may think they have nothing to give, when a friend cries with them, they find the strength to appease the pain.
To learn that by trying to hold on to love ones, they very quickly push them away; and by letting go of those they love, they will be side by side forever.